Wednesday, July 27, 2005

What's yr take on...

What's yr take on sex 2

42 comments:

pissoff said...

Depends on who it's with!

Sniffy said...

It's OK I suppose

Sniffy said...

It's OK for those who happen to have somebody to have sex with (apart from themselves).

Is it better on your own or with somebody else to help out? Oh, most definitely with somebody else. I think, I can't remember to tell you the truth.

Convict said...

Usyally lovely with someone else, mostly horrible on your own.

The Toothfairy said...

I'm with pissoff, depends who it's with. But I would have to go with lovely

Dirk the Feeble said...

These morons, I swear . . . it absolutely does NOT matter who it's with. It's like this: when it's good, it's REALLY good. When it's bad . . . it's still pretty good.

The Toothfairy said...

No - not morons - women. To us, it matters

MHN for short said...

Getting a bit personal but, with the one you love it is the best experience one can imagine. That's actually , and I really hate this term but, "making love". Ugh, so girly.

The other stuff that you have described, Jacob, is "getting your rocks off". That's a completely different thing. It takes care of the sexual tension that has built up, but doesn't really add joy to your life. IMHO and with 15 years of experience under my belt...

Don't get me wrong, women like getting their rocks off as much as guys do, but the other is so much better. My husband would say the same. We've talked about it before.

Good Morning Herge!

a spoon said...

can be both!

cotard said...

That's a maffis depenza.

Jessica said...

The most sensual, fantastic activity that life has to offer!

Nobody Special said...

Well it's something to do in the ad breaks isn't it?

Ooh, sorry, Tina, was that too American for you? Obviously I meant commercial break. Sorry.

Nobody Special said...

I think the most important point to make is that good sex can be very, very bad but bad sex is never good.

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Crystal said...

sex is lovely. and I disagree w/ a lot of people - sex by yourself can be quite enjoyable if you know what you like and how to do it. Of course it's never as great as w/ the person you love (or the one who just rocks your world).

Perdita said...

sex is sex
What the act of sex becomes is what you make it

I chose NOT to use it for procreation
which I think is LOVELY

The Toothfairy said...

Though, I must say, if Ship's answer is any different, there will indeed be hell to pay

Karen said...

These morons, I swear . . . it absolutely does NOT matter who it's with. It's like this: when it's good, it's REALLY good. When it's bad . . . it's still pretty good.

Jacob, you sound like a "moron"... I hope your lover doesn't know s/he's as enjoyable to you as your own right hand or a cheap gloryhole.

Karen said...

Herge - it's lovely AND horrible AND everything in between. It makes the world go 'round, though, as surely as love and money do.

red one said...

IMHO and with 15 years of experience under my belt...

I like "under my belt" here.

*laughs*

Oh, the question about my take on sex? Um. Can I try a bit more before I answer that? I'll let you know when I've had enough to give a definitive answer...

;-)

RedOne

Rowan said...

If its not what you are living for, you are not living for much IMHO. There's no such thing as bad sex, just better. Also, depends on the mood. There are times I want to be "loved", but most of the time, I just want to be ravaged. I have always said, a sex with a stranger is the best sort. No strings, just fantasy. It's better because you know nothing of them, and you don't have to make them coffee in the morning, nor give a crap about how it was for them, if you both stop worrying about how good/bad it was, it will be excellent for both of you. Go with it.

Crystal said...

Rowan, if you weren't married - I would so hook you up w/ a friend of mine.

edwaado said...

Still waiting for the Ship's comment.

The Toothfairy said...

Apparently he has gone out walking. I'm intrigued to see the comment too.

Nice to meet u btw edwaado

garfer said...

Can be a tad messy, but then so's a chocolate eclair. I am quite partial to eclairs.

Ship Creak said...

Personally, I think it's great, until you find "the one", and then you have the most pleasant surprise and realise how crap it was before. From then on there's no question...

MHN for short said...

Thank you Ship! You just made my point!

edwaado said...

Happy days.

Glad to meet you too tf.

Sniffy said...

Sex is lovely when you've got a nice undecorated loft-hatch to look at while you're at it.

Ship Creak said...

You coming on Friday, ed?

aasmodeus said...

rape == bad sex.

barry white == good sex.

I mean, sex while listening to him. I have no idea what sex with him might be like.

thordora said...

smelly, but FUN!

pissoff said...

Well, lately I can time my eggs to it. That's not too good if you ask me.

Karen said...

I wonder if Rowan's opinion would be different if she hadn't been with the same guy for years and years... (Grass is greener syndrome). Of course, I am assuming you are NOT having sex with strangers right now (my narrow definition of marriage.)

Aas - Barry White is dead. That would be BAD sex by just about anyone's definition (except for necros. :)

Craig said...

Aasmodeous,

I belive what it would be like is both disturbing and illegal, as he died 2 years ago. But of course, that's just my opinion.

edwaado said...

April, hard or soft? Or is this a euphimism for the rhythm method?

thordora said...

from April's description of the nemesis, I'm sure those are SOFT boiled eggs....

MHN for short said...

I'm not sure about the multiple partners thing or strangers, as Dave & I were our firsts and only, but it just keeps getting better and better.

I don't think that I'd trust a stranger to not hurt me or to not give me a disease. definately NOT good sex in my mind...

boabhan sith said...

LOL...it depends...

Who are we having sex with?

Rowan said...

Karen: I think it depends on your mind set at the time. As I am married, and my husband has low-testosterone, and more worried about making sure I'm pleased, I tend to miss men who were just naturally amazing in bed (I think it must mean they're he-whores) you must know the type, a fantasy come true and dangerous, and alluring and....and....
Plus, with little 'uns around, it gets hard to be spontaneous (we actually have to set dates together and most of the time break them) and feeling up to it. We're both tired much of the time. M works 13 hour days, and I stupidly wait up for him much of the time. I agree, those few moments when my husband and I do connect, is a much better feeling, I think even for him. The surprise that someone here was talking about, is gaining the knowledge (especially for men) what it is really liked to be love and be loved in return physically. I think generally, that concept is often foreign to men. With their wife, I think they get it more. Plus when you are married, your partner isn't as likely to bolt when you share your particular kinks with them.

Rowan said...

oooo crystal, how so? What's your friend into? not married but looking btw, just curious where they stand on this?

Faltanus said...

straight people are funny. i was at the local bath house (read - gay men's sex club) the other night and i'll spare you all the details, but sex is pretty fucking fantastic. and not to worry - my partner of 11 years was well aware i was there. he was at home sound asleep. and when i got home, i crawled into bed with him, his arm wrapped around me tightly, and i fell asleep - just a happy and content as could be.