It was all whirlwind, heat and flash.

Many blogs discuss the deeper meaning of what it is to be a human being living right now in these times of war, social injustice, poverty, famine, disease, murder, violence and general hatred.

This is not one of those blogs.

This blog is about the other stuff, stuff that doesn't have any real rules or clear guidelines but can still trip us up, makes us look like idiots or lose us friends/ dates/ money/ jobs/ hair.

I aim to use this blog to chart these... situations and hopefully open them up for debate, discussion and hopefully resolution with a guideline we can all agree on and hopefully work with. Hopefully.

I am doing this because I strongly believe that when we have these situations licked all the big stuff, war and that will fall away and we will be left with a modern utopia where we dance around naked and smile at each other like we're on E, even though we're not.

Or it could just be another pointless blog by some no mark tit.

The first situation I will be addressing is;

Should you chat up the Ex of a close friend?

Hopefully my initial stab at this one will be up tomorrow. Right now I'm off to see The Kills.

Keep on your mean side.